HOME-(1)
Primarily home is a place where we take refuge safely ,peacefully; .Love, caring and sharing among the members of family are the basic components that turns a house to sweet home: The age -old adage "home is where the heart is " has become a cliche.
To me, it is neither the beauty of nature with wonderful environment nor a baroque marvelous piece of mansion decorated with expensive furniture and most sophisticated gadgets; but the loving relationship between the members and interdependency to each other constitute the bond of family, the plinth of the family who come to live together in a dwelling place called 'home'; home brings the desired joy, peace and security to everybody of the family who belong to..Home does not refer to structure of some concrete building; it is more personal or emotional refuge; even it can be something abstract. (a place in my mind). Home is an abode of peace and security. just as bird who come back at the end of day to its nest for safety, security and peace.
My father had transferable job in Indian Railway. So I moved with parents from small two bedroom Railway quarter to big bunglows. with outhouses which were almost near to where I spent my early life. I, even, did not know the difference between "home" and the houses my father owned during his service time until his retirement. I consider all of them equally as my home .
After marriage I moved with my husband from smaller bachelor's house to bigger officers' bungalows, cherishing the same feeling. But, by the time I was then aware of the difference between home and houses.. I never felt that those are property of company. My children never scratched the wall with pen or colored pencil unlike most of my friends' houses I noticed the wall marked dirty with alphabets ABCD and drawings. If asked ,they often shrugged shoulder to say reluctantly,"it is after all company's house, let our kids enjoy.'
My husband was the first one of his batch to build and shift to his own house . I was sad to leave the luxurious company's bungalow and the neighborhood which became as my extended family. On the final day of shifting ,tears rolled down my cheeks ,surrounded by neighbours who came to say 'bye'. They consoled me "you are the lucky one among us to have your own house . Cheer up ! See, your husband looks sad to see you crying. give him a smile! We all will go in your house warming and stay overnight.' They wiped my eyes.
As my husband passed away suddenly with cerebral attack, and I was ill ,my daughter brought me here with her posting in New York. Not only family and home but uprooted from own country , own land ,it was quite challenging for me, and for any woman of sixty plus,to replant in a new land with different culture, rituals.
From early life I was an arduous lover of academic life and interested in art and creativity.Soul finds its own community, so I did .
Now I don't feel disconnected; I attend different religious retreat, poetry class, memoir writing ,Art, music drama. I don't feel lonely Even in pandemic. I feel sad for others who have lost their near and dear ones ;also for immense loss of lives ,loss of jobs, loss of confidence but not for myself ; I am not burdened by the shadow of engulfing fear, and confusion of the future.There is no doubt that this pandemic will create a revolutionary change . Let us hope positive. Every creation comes after destruction.
A new global society will emerge out of the chaos of pandemic .
Part (2). What do you mean by "home"?
Mother nature provided shelter to our ancestors in mountain caves forests and trees which might be named as primitive homes. They
lived decades after decades as long as they were hunters and gatherers
As they learnt farming ,they had to wait in one place for getting crops. They built huts with log or mud to stay; Change to agricultural life from nomadic life was the first step of civilization.It continued a long time.
When agricultural life reached Industrial Age , civilization ran in galloping step with booming scientific innovations like steam engine, airplane, electricity, radio, printing press, telephone , cars ,TV, refrigerator .Importance of machine captures a lion share in human life as it brought more comfort ,more luxury.
From forest and caves dwelling, tribal life upgraded to sky-scrapper multi-storied metropolis via villages, towns , cities and metro-cities. Perhaps the "divine dissatisfaction"in human nature pushed him to achieve more and more without limit.
With immense intellectual power , innovations, now in its pinnacle, captured the digital world.
After achieving dream house ,car ,wealth , everything still remains some empty spaces in human mind : craving for 'what is not"!
...What is that?
FREEDOM. Freedom from bondings ; freedom from all the mundane achievements ! An eternal human wish to fly like a bird in the open sky!
Nothing is comparable to freedom , ofcourse, with physical fitness.
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Part (3)
BIRD"S CAGE
The happy blue bird from the tree,
Sings for the green one, "come with me
To fly free in the open sky.
Once you embrace liberty
Will forget the bondage with this cage;
Forever, forever! we are fortunate
To build happy home in Nature!
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