Friday, August 28, 2026

Sipra's Diary : [2026] IN SEARCH OF HARMONY......

 

IN SEARCH  OF HARMONY. :    Sipra Roy                  Words =468 // 

 

" Rousseau said Man is a social animal".  It was between 1740/1750.

But the famous biologist Darwin held different view. Charles Darwin was born in 1809 and died in 1882. He was an evolutionary scientist .He  marveled the world with his theory, "Survival of the fittest " which is still reigning .The question raised  storm  to find out who are the fittest! How to judge or count down the fittest?  Darwin explained what he meant by fittest. Fittest are those who  adapted  themselves to the environment ."Fittest "are not those who are biggest or strongest, but the "ability to adapt with the environment" . The dinosaurs could not survive as they failed to adapt due to their  huge  size and weight of the  body  in spite of being  largest  and most powerful, while frog and cockroaches still survived more than last 600 million years . 

Like dinosaurs many other biggest and strongest creatures extinct for lack of adaptation.

If man is a social animal then why  there are so many wars, commotions   competitions  of power  happening throughout the ages in this  world ? Man tended to be social only for self interest otherwise they are power-hungry.

 

The essence of humanity is a genetic terrorist which efficiently superimposes  the weaker links. Life is not at all sharing , caring or  interdependence,  as we always try to  portrait , pretend or preach .

 

 Life is about winning; Based on the principle of "Eat or to be eaten".  It is true in our everyday  individual life , domestic life , community life , social, political financial  every sphere.  That's why we have to put so much 'Philanthropic ' effort to keep us united with   (somewhat Mythical!) bond of love!

Though record of romantic relationship existed  abundantly for centuries  in  art, history or literature  over the universe from the age of Adam- Eve but in  popular entertainment, relationships are often portrayed as a war between two sexes . Main objective of marital relationship is to exercise control over the use of money or children. Divorce is a device or weapon which gives each side more autonomy which makes marital conflict more complex. Women's freedom or divorce is social scar; though  ‘divorce’ was introduced with the intention of welfare for family life.  

 

Feminism and the introduction of birth control pill have  radically changed ( demolished! ) the social structure .Still the distribution of 'controlling power' between two genders has not been settled yet ; society still has to make progress before there is truly equal distribution  of power in relationship.     

Sri Aurobindo  said, all conflicts  and confusions in human life are due to the lack of harmony. The possibility of  harmony in the world may come  only if the 'Unity in diversity' is unanimously accepted.

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